Making Au Pair Friends As Au Pair
We all dream about it, we move to the US and right down the Street lives another Au Pair you become best friends and do everything together. You go on adventures, play dates with your Kiddos, explore the city and have sleep overs. Sounds amazing right?
The reality looks often very different. Sometimes there is no Au Pair living close to you, and if so you don’t get along really well. So what to do now? Where to meet other Au Pairs?
Are you ready to embark on a journey of friendship that'll add a sprinkle of magic to your American experience? Buckle up as we explore the art of connecting with like-minded souls.
1. Uncover the Path to Friendship:
Imagine a world where you can find potential buddies through cluster events, counselor contacts, Facebook Au Pair groups, and even college English courses. These things are your ticket to meeting kindred spirits who share your vibe. It's like assembling a puzzle of friendship, one piece at a time.
Make sure to go to your cluster events and meet other Au Pairs from your agency. Ask your Counselor at arrival for the contact list and just start sending out texts to all living somehow close to you, no matter the age, race, age or such. Be open minded and expect a couple of rejections. As soon as you find your Au Pair Bestie (in real life, I know I’m you online Au Pair bestie) it will be all worth it.
You can also connect with other Au Pairs from different Agencies, Facebook groups are a big help for that. Sometimes they are even WhatsApp groups for your area. I found some of my Au Pair friends at the College English course I took and we become really good friends and traveled a lot together.
2. Deeper Connections – Finding Your Tribe:
Here's the deal, my friends: having pals is great, but having pals who resonate with you is where the real magic happens. Having friends just to have friends is never a good idea but especially if you are on a once in a lifetime experience you don’t want to waste your time dancing to their tune instead of your own rhythm. It's like swapping your compass for someone else's map – you might miss out on your own adventure. Building bonds based on common interests opens the door to exciting adventures that truly reflect who you are. And let's face it, nobody wants to feel like a lonely tree in a crowded forest, right? Surrounded by friends who truly understand you, you'll find the comfort of companionship without the feeling of loneliness.
Don’t feel bad to say no to things you don’t enjoy doing and I don’t mean the oppertunity’s that push you out of your comfort zone. I mean say no to watching TV if you would rather go and explore the city. The right people will find you if you keep doing the things you like.
3. Au Pair Besties for Global Exploration:
Hold onto your passports, globetrotters! Having Au Pair buddies isn't just about sharing laughs and snapshots. It's a journey to a world brimming with cultures waiting to be discovered. Think about it – by connecting with friends from different corners of the globe, you're gaining insights into traditions, stories, and experiences you might have never encountered otherwise. Plus, when wanderlust strikes, your Au Pair besties are there with you on the same budget, ready to explore the hidden gems and breathtaking sights of the land you now call home.
4.Overcoming First-Meeting Nerves:
Meeting new people can be a bit nerve-wracking for everyone, no matter how confident they seem. But remember, everyone is in the same boat. Think of it as stepping onto a dance floor at a party – the first step is often the hardest, but it sets the tone for a wonderful dance. Take that step and initiate a conversation. Ask about their hobbies and share your own. Find things you both like an invite them to an adventure. Here again it’s helpful to have a bucketlist and can share some things you want to do. Maybe on you bucket list is a small adventure that you can go on together to see if you vibe.
So, dear adventurers, it's time to embark on your quest to build lasting Au Pair friendships. Seek out gatherings, reach out to your counselor for contacts, join friendly Au Pair groups on Facebook, and consider joining English classes to meet potential pals. From discovering common interests to those nerve-wracking first conversations, each step brings you closer to forming bonds that will enrich your journey. But before you go I want to give you one little heads up on the way, it might takes a couple tries to find an Au Pair friend and it might not work out at all. But there are other options like becoming friends with locals or embracing the connection to yourself. After all it’s a journey and you’ve got to enjoy the journey itself with all the individuals you meet. Some stay strangers and some hold the key to your heart. Never give up, since it’s all part of the journey.
See you out there, Michelle
Your online Au Pair bestie
